It's not The Rules either, and it sure as hell isn't He's Just Not That Into You! I mean, what relationship book begins with the premise that you have no idea who you are living with…that in fact other people are entirely your projection until you question what you believe about them?!?!!!
Katie's unsung second book stands on the shoulders of Loving What Is to show you what real intimacy can look like without stressful stories. What if you could relate to others without manipulation, neediness, or the desire for them to be different? (I realized after reading this book that I'd never done that ,ever - the result was that I couldn't talk to anyone for a couple of weeks afterwards!)
Read this book at your own risk – and read it from the heart, because it will blow your mind. That's a good thing!
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Source: I Need Your Love - Is That True? : How to Stop Seeking Love, Approval, and Appreciation and Start Finding Them Instead, Page: 104
Contributed by: Koheli.
“It only takes one clear person to have a good relationship.”
Source: I Need Your Love - Is That True? : How to Stop Seeking Love, Approval, and Appreciation and Start Finding Them Instead, Page: 145
Contributed by: Lisa Biskup.
Nothing can cost you someone you love. The only thing that can cost you your husband is if you believe a thought. That’s how you move away from him. That’s how the marriage ends. You are one with your husband until you believe the thought that he should look a certain way, he should give you something, he should be something other than what he is. That’s how you divorce him. Right then and there you have lost your marriage.
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Have you ever found yourself in a relationship wanting more, wishing something would change? Did you think it would be better if your partner would just do the dishes, buy you flowers, or tell you s/he loved you more often? Well, guess what…you don't need anything to change for you to be happy - all you need to do is question your stressful thoughts (about your partners, your children, your family, your boss, your neighbor, your friends…), and find out what is really true for you - what you find may shock you into ecstatic joy and love!
You are the one you have been looking for!!
Read this book and find out how to use The Work to investigate any thought or belief that would keep you from total and complete joy and happiness, in love with all that life has to offer, including your children, your mom, your dad, your spouse, your pet, etc.
This is freedom people!