this is one of my fave books by paulo coelho. he is one amazing writer that really get me into reflecting stuff in my life. it is a good one because it made me realize that love definitely has no bounderies. real love is only experienced if one was loved and accepted for who and what s/he is.

A great read.  One of my favs by Coehlo. 

    I recently discovered Paulo Coelho and have been devouring all of his books.  Eleven Minutes and the Zahir are my favorites.  All men should read this book as it gives great insite into the minds of women and how we view and experience out sexuality.  There is always so much more to Coelhos stories that what you read on the book jacket. 
Cannot reccomend highly enough!

It hurt when I lost each of the various men I fell in love with. Now, though, I am convinced that no one loses anyone, because no one owns anyone. That is the true experience of freedom: having the most important thing in the world without owning it.